Six Unique Bachelor Party Ideas before wedding
So, he's decided to get hitched, and he wants you to stand beside
him as Best Man. With this honor comes great responsibility—you must
now throw a bachelor bash that he will never forget. We've assembled
six ideas to ensure that you give the groom the ultimate send-off.
The Usual
Although strippers and strip clubs are often
synonymous with bachelor parties, you should first talk to the groom to
make sure that this is something he wants. If he (or his future bride)
is uncomfortable with the idea of a lap dance, then the bachelor may not
have fun at his own party. If you do receive the official go-ahead for
"girls gone wild," you will then need to decide if you want to go out
to a club or have the entertainment come to you. A night at a strip
club is likely to require less planning on your part, but hosting the
party at home or a hotel will make the evening more affordable for
everyone. After all, if you are supplying the beverages, no one will
need to spring for overpriced drinks. Either way, we recommend making
strippers only one part of the evening. Be sure to plan additional
activities before or after the event so that anyone who may be
uncomfortable can bow out at some point. Dinner, a comedy show, or a
poker game is sure to be fun for everyone invited. Cocktail shakers or personalized cigar flasks make great guy gifts.
Vegas, Baby
The city's slogan promises to keep your secrets
safe, which could work to your advantage when planning a bachelor party
on The Strip. Las Vegas is a grown man's amusement park with gambling,
gourmet dining, golfing, nightclubs, and a wide-selection of
entertainment to offer. (And, yes, that "entertainment" does include
strippers). However, a weekend in Vegas can be very expensive, so you'd
better make sure that the groom's best buddies can afford the trip
before you book it. Plan to spring for a nice dinner out and consider
hiring a limo if you want to hit the clubs—the cost and convenience of
this is sure to outweigh the challenge of hiring multiple cabs. Decide
on a budget beforehand and consider leaving your ATM card in the hotel
room before you hit the casinos. If you can't stick to your budget, do
your best to abide by the Vegas motto and leave your guilt behind.
Vegas-themed favors and gifts like roulette wheel cufflinks or professional poker kits are safe bets for a hit.
Great Outdoors
If the groom-to-be is a fan of the outdoors,
consider a weekend in nature (and pack plenty of beer for the occasion).
Whether you plan a ski trip in the mountains or a couple of days
camping beside the lake, it's guaranteed to include some serious male
bonding time. Hiking, kayaking, or whitewater rafting can be a great
way for the groom to have his best buddies together before he ventures
into marriage. But if details are not your forte, consider hiring a
company to organize the trip for you. Adventure Bachelor Party
organizes outdoor weekend voyages throughout the country, including
rafting and kayak trips, cattle wrangling (a la City Slickers), flying, and motoring (on ATVs, airboats, or snowmobiles). Everything is included—from beers to bonfires! Engraved stainless steel army knife or mini flask key rings are popular gifts that may even come in handy on the trip!
Going to Extremes
The plunge into marriage will seem like a
piece of cake—especially if the bachelor jumps from a plane at 10,000
feet first. If the idea of skydiving doesn't thrill your crew, try
bungee jumping, hang gliding, scuba diving, surfing, rock climbing,
mountain climbing, or even "shark hunting" (observing sharks while scuba
diving). There's nothing like defying death to bring a group of guys
closer together—and just think of the stories the groom will have to
tell his grandchildren someday. If you want to stay closer to home,
rent a few go-carts for the day, or dust off your old skateboards and
ride them back to the skate park.
Game On!
A little friendly competition can bring out the best
in friends. Sports are a great way to get the gang together and honor
the groom. Organize a tournament, complete with a couple of kegs and personalized t-shirts
to mark the occasion (different colors for different teams, of course).
Football, soccer, tennis, golf, flag football, volleyball, bowling, or
even paint ball can be a blast. Pair the tournament with a barbecue
afterwards and you'll have the makings of a perfect bachelor party. If
your gang is not the athletic type, buy group tickets to a local
sporting event. Don't forget to leave plenty of time for tailgating
beforehand. Supply each player with a personalized cooler for snacks throughout the day.
Road Trip
Start with a destination in mind (like Graceland or
Vegas), or simply pile the gang into the car and see where the road
takes you. Either way, it's bound to be a memorable trip. You just
need a full tank of gas, a few good traveling companions, and a good mix
of music. Kidnap the groom and surprise him with a weekend back to
your old college town, where you can reminisce while sipping beers in
your favorite old watering holes. Or, for an added adventure, consider
crossing the border to Canada or Mexico—just remember to bring your
passports! Prepare personalized CD holders filled with tunes from your heyday for each of the guys as a memento from the trip.
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